Feeling so good after I heard a friend of my told me that my former District Manager has been demoted to Account Manager. Woo it was a huge demotion for him from DM to AM yuck! Furthermore he has been in that position for more than 10 years.
I knew him 15years ago when I worked in Penang branch and he is the one who transffered me to SFO branch. However, I see his true color after he changed his words after verbally agreed to allow me to renew my working permit for another term.
But after he received the renewal papers from my attorney he not ONLY let the papers sit on his desk collecting dusts for weeks then wait until the very last minute he called me to his office and told me that he can’t sign the documents. With the reasons he can’t promise a position for another term due to current economy crisis. Well, I do not understand why he verbally agreed at first and with that l paid my attorney USD2,000.00 to work on my renewal papers. And now, he changed his words! He can’t give me a good answer when I ask him WHY he verbally agreed to me earlier?
My dark day begin as I wasted two thousand dollars to 5pages papers which will going to be trash. In additional, I am going to be a jobless in 3 weeks ahhh how sad and painful to deal with these.
These leave me with no choice but to let my boy friend who l just knew him about 3 months old. I told him what had happened and we will have long distant relationship instead. Because I can’t afford to leave here without income. The first question he asked me ‘Who is going to take care of me here!’ Then he asked me to wait for his return as he is on his business trip.
On the following day around 11am and I received a call at work. My sweetie asked me to take half day off as he just landed SFO airport and will meet me at home. How sweet and genuine he is to leave his conference early to support me when I am in trouble and needed him the most.
He took me to San Francisco City Hall and we got married at 2pm on 8th September 2003 with no preparation but this is no different then fairy tale. Both of us stood in the middle of City Hall and holding hand in front of judge then each one of us committed our vow and said ” I, DO’ with passionate kiss gees this is sweetest things and unforgetable moment in my life. It still very fresh in my mind.
Although we got married license and I still can’t work until l receive the employment authorization which is after 2months. During these 2months and I enjoying life as lady of pleasure such as wake up, gym, drive around, shopping, travelling and trading. But I learned a great deal with this bitter sweet experiences which is NO verbally agreement with the management even I respect and trust him/her. It should has been written confirmation to avoid things like this.
We were happily married and I am glad my hushand is a good, kind, sweet, loving person. He is the one who non stop encourage me back to school and lift me up to next level. He truly special and the one and only that I ever know…he is my best friend, lover, darling and My Pinky pie. Thank God I found the right man and forgive the looser manager as he lead me to that path. Well, hate to hear about his demotion but I think he totally deserved it.